Appreciate the world as it is, not how you would like it to be -Epictetus
Life is so big and we are just morsels in the scope of things.
We are vessels 🚢 meant to sail away in the deep blue and lift those up with life savers , within reason.
Some things are in our control
Others are not. We have no control over how the dice of life are cast. What we control is the hand we play once they are thrown.